Lisa Nqala

The blog is about being optimistic and being happy with what you have already achieved.

Wednesday 3 October 2018

The break up journey - You are not ready - Dear teen#12

When you are dealing with the break up some time you will have that urge to prove a point to your previous partner.
You will want to be in a relationship so that you can prove to him or her that you are happy.
To prove that you can be loved
To prove that you can do better than them
To prove that you can upgrade

When you feel like that about the new relationship it means that you are still not ready.
When you are ready you will want to be in a relationship just to be happy not to prove a point to anyone.
Getting into a relationship just to prove a point to someone is a trap it will backfire and it will hit you hard and it will be too difficult to recover from it. You lose yourself.
Take all the time you need to heal from the break up until you are excited to be in love again without an urge to prove a point.
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