MY OBSESSION WITH THE WOW PEOPLE

Where are the wow people? that's the question I asked my today when was feeling demotivated.T he wow people are those people who are so different from most of the people. The way they do things, their perception of life, the way they talk and what they say. Have you ever have a conversation

with someone and suddenly you feel so positive about life, so excited and determined? that 's the effect they have on other people. Their positivist, energy, confidence is contagious. They do not believe in cheating, they believe in building and not destroying, they love and appreciate their partners, they respect and take care of the people close to them. They are not scared of giving love a second chance no matter how the heart is broken they were. When they tell you how they made it to where they are it's mind-blowing. They know how to stand their ground and resist temptations. How they speak about the future is inspiring. Even a minute you spent with this kind of people is priceless. They are hard to find and not easy to lose if you appreciate them. They value hard work. They are visionaries, they see what they want before they work or get it. No matter how hard you can try to discourage them you do not succeed because they have already seen what they are looking for. The way they deal with life challenges is outstanding. They are clear about what they want and do not want in their life.
Their Gogetta attitude, self-control, values, consistency and creativity make them outstanding.T hey are hard to get, you meet them once in a while, they are valued. They are like a therapy when you are with them you feel renewed. They see good in every situation. They are the masters of peace.

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KEEP THE LIGHT SHINING

Keeping on your light shining is a full-time job. Keeping on  your light shining means : keep on being motivated, keep on motivating others , keep on  inspiring  yourself , keep on inspiring others , keep on learning , keep on believing , keep on hoping , keep on working hard , keep on trying , keep on smiling , keep on celebrating life , keep on being true to yourself , keep on loving , keep on forgiving , keep on moving , keep on pushing to the limits , keep on walking , keep on dreaming , keep on removing yourself from bad situation or people , keep on being awesome , keep on improving and developing  yourself , keep on  praying , keep on worshiping God , keep on doing your best, keep on appreciating yourself  , why? because that what you are here for.

A LESSON LEARNED FROM LETTING GO -2016

2016 was a disaster from the start (January). I had to be very clear about what I wanted to achieve at the end of 2016. The most powerfully lesson I had to learn in 2016 was to let go of things not worth my time and energy or that I have no control over. Letting go of things not worthy my time and energy for me means letting go of confusion, feeling discouraged, tiredness (emotional &physical), feeling unappreciated, feeling stuck, feeling like you are not enough, feeling drained, the urge to prove a point all the time etc. All these feelings are not you that is why you have to let them go. Situations and people can make you believe that these feelings belong to you and you must live with them for the rest of your life.
I learned to choose my battles and use the WHY METHOD in everything I wanted to do I had to ask myself why am I doing what I am doing? Is it worth fighting for? If the list of why am I doing it is long and valuable then its worthy fighting for. Letting go of things that are draining you, could be a relationship, a friendship or a job is not easy but if you know deep down in your heart that you have tried everything in your power to save or keep it or to make it work. It makes you feel  revealed and confident to close that book or chapter in your life. You get excited to start again without feeling overwhelmed, you get excited to give yourself to something new and different because you know in your heart that you  owe it to yourself. 

Written by Lisa Nqala

POSITIVE MIND , POSITIVE VIBE -YOUR TOUGHT

Positive mind gives you a positive vibe. I have been reading the book call THE SECRETE  by Rhonda Byrne, the book is based on the law of attraction and positive thinking. What you think is what you become, if you think more about what makes you unhappy the more unhappy you become. When you think about what makes you happy suddenly your mood change, you become happy. Unfortunately, our happiness is our responsibility, your degree, partner, family, beauty, car, big house, friends, the child can not make you happy. There are many people out there who got all these things mentioned above but still, they are not happy, WHY? because happiness is an inside job. On the book the secret it says "your ability to generate a feeling of love is unlimited".Love is you, you can change situations and people with your love, your love is unlimited. When you are happy you want everyone to be happy to feel the love you are feeling, you have that vibe.
WHERE DO WE BEGIN? it starts with a character, what you think, how you control your toughs, how you treat others, self-control, values, who you surround yourself with, how you present yourself to people ( must never be a disconnect with who you really are). Having a clear picture of what you want and believe that you already received it produces a positive vibe. Your tough are powerful, you are not who you are outside but who you are inside. It is an inside job that really matters. LOVE IS YOU, HAPPINESS IS YOU, SPREAD LOVE, SPREAD JOY.

A DAY BEFORE BIRTHDAY- GROWTH

Growth is all about decisions you make, choices, people you surround yourself with, the person you become, achievements, battles you choose, situations you decide to leave, the lesson you learn and accepting the truth about you and others .O n a day before my Bday , that's what came on my mind.

FEELING DISCONNECTED TO GOD

Feeling disconnected from God is the worst thing that could happen in your life.

This post is the opposite of the one I posted a month ago called WHEN GOD INTERVENE.

Here we do not see God at all, we do not feel His presence. No matter how hard you try to connect to God you cannot seem to connect. You stop reading the word of God, you stop praying, you stop going to church, you avoid talking about the word, you stop listening to preaching, you become angry at God, the anger makes you sin and you do not feel guilty about it. You cry to God but nothing seems to happen. You do everything to discourage people who are still connected to God.

You feel like you are devils playground. Without the presence of God, you feel like a piece of  sh*t. A relationship with God is the best relationship you can ever have, losing that  relationship is the worst thing that could happen to you, especial when you know deep down to yourself that you have tried everything in your power to save the relationship, you have cried, prayed, confessed, begged, fasted, praised and read the word. You just wait for Him to find you again.

The waiting is painful tough.

Written by Lisa Nqala

THE POWER OF AFFIRMATIONS

You are what you say you are. The world can describe you in many different ways, but the power lies in with what you say and believe you are. If you do not know who you are it means you do not know where you are going If you do not know where you going life will happen to you. If you do not want life to happen to you, you better start spending some quality time with your self, get to know your self better, find joy within yourself, inspire yourself, motivate your self, renovate your self, put a new fresh look especially if you are tired with your old self. Always remember EVERY THING YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS RIGHT WITHIN YOU.
Lisa Nichol said," anything after I AM, is true to your conscious mind your conscious mind will believe ".
Here are some of the  words you should use to define yourself each and every day  :
I am enough, I am so enough
I am a go-getter
I am a survivor
I am human, I am subjected to make mistake, but I promise myself to learn from them
I am a fighter
I am brave
I am bright
I am a change
I am my own rescue
I am determined to success
I am motivated
I am an inspiration
I fall, I rise
I cry, I laugh
I have a passion
I have a dream
I have a vision
I have God on my side, who can be against Him
I am here on earth to live and tell my story
I am a leader, I lead
I am different, so different in fact I am Unique
I am loved, by myself, my love is more powerful than anything on earth.
Self-love is a foundation, Believing in yourself is a key.

FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF -MY FEEL GOOD PRODUCTS(Tea Tree Collection)

It is good to spoil yourself once in a while, loving yourself and making yourself a priority its necessary. Your happiness is your responsibility. I love body shop products every time i think of spoiling myself i always think of the body shop products.I have collected some of their products like their Tea tree face mask its amazing ,it leaves your skin feeling clean and fresh

.I used it once a week like Saturdays or Sundays.

I also started using tea tree foaming face wash, it smell nice and it does not dry my skin it also leave my skin clean and fresh.

I also use tea tree toner which is also too good for my clean.

I recently got myself  the body shop card ,i am so excited about that, i cant wait to spoil myself with their product.

ABANDONMENT (LET ME TAKE YOU THERE)- HITTING ROCK BOTTOM

LET ME TAKE YOU THERE

You feel like you are left alone, you feel like you are fighting all by yourself, you hate, you cry without ceasing, you feel disconnected, you feel useless, you feel helpless, you are hurting, you feel like you are breathing through the pain. You ask God constantly, why He hates you so much. You compare yourself to other people and ask yourself why this thing you are dealing with is not happening to them and you start to believe that God really hates you or maybe you are just simply not His favourite. You compare living and dying. You become angry and curse God. You hate everyone who talks about God or says God loves you. You hate scriptures and urge with them. The pain, anger and hatred turn you into something that you never tough you would be. You look at yourself and you see the pain. You think of yourself, you think of the pain that you could not even describe to anyone. You feel the darkness everywhere you go no matter who you are with. When it’s hurt so must you even lose focus. Whenever you open your eyes from sleep you wake up to this darkness. You ask yourself how did everything went so wrong, you question yourself why must you feel so much pain. Is it necessary? Is it worth it? You stop believing, you stop praying, you stop eating, you stop smiling, you stop hoping, you stop being kind, you stop caring, you stop dreaming, you stop talking, you wish you could stand on top of the mountain and scream  HELP!!!

Pain is too powerful that it does not matter whether you are wealthy, beautiful, famous, educated, talented, intelligent, Kind, God-fearing etc., when it gets you, it gets you. The pain makes you think that you understand why some people behave the way they do. The pain makes you hate living. You feel like God has turned against you, you try to speak to Him but you get no answers, you can feel the distance, you beg for His presence but you feel like He denies you. You feel like you could run away from the pain but you do not know how or where you can go. The future looks so dark. You cannot rescue yourself and no one seem to rescue you. You wish you can get a big hug and a voice saying it will pass. You wish someone could tell you that you are still ALIVE. You get tired of acting like everything is Okay. The truth about it is that you cannot leave it, it leaves you. You must acknowledge it and accept it and believe in time, Time heals, that's the only thing I can say. Give it time, it will pass.

WHAT I HAVE LEARNED THROUGH THE PROCESS

When everything is still going well in your life, I urge you to, SET GOALS, write them down nicely and be clear. Have a vision of what you want in life, Dream, Dream Big, Think Big, find a passion. Be prepared before life shuts you down. Look for Role models, people who inspire you, people who never give up on their dreams, people who fight a good fight, people who fight for their dreams, people who make you believe that anything is possible. Be humble, Respect people, treat people well, and never undermine anyone. Surround yourself with positive people, appreciate and honor them. Remove yourself from negative people in time because they will worsen the situation. Learn to create beautiful memories because they will be the ones that will remind you that there is more to life than pain. You goals and dream will also give you the reason why should you hang in there. Finally pray for strength in advance.

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WE ARE CREATORS , WE WERE CREATED TO CREATE

We were created by the Creator (God) we were given the power to create which make us creators. Life is full of unexpected events that unfortunately we do not have the power to change .Living on earth is hard, exhausting, painful etc but we were created by the creator, we were created to create. In every situation, we are obligated to create. At some point in life we need to report what we have created for example you can not just say that you went through divorce,break-up, depression, insecurities but the question would be what have you done or created while you were going through divorce, break-up, depression, insecurities etc, what would you say to someone who is going through what you went through?we are here to create, we have an everyday assignment to create . If we sometimes get lost or discouraged we consult our Creator. We ask for a direction and power from Him. We are creators, we were created, we are creative. We are not just here on earth to sit and relax. We are here to create to live the legacy. Each and every situation we go through gives us an opportunity to create different things. Each and Every second, every minute, Every day, Every week, Every month, Every year gives us an opportunity to create and be creative. You create when it's painful, you create when it's exciting, you create when you feel hopeless, you create when feel lost, you create when you don't even feel like creating, WHY because you were created to create and you were created by the creator.
HERE IS MY FAVOURITE SONG (LYRICS)

'I wanna leave my footprint on the sands of time
Know there was something that, meant something that I left behind
When I leave this world, I'll leave no regrets,
Leave something to remember so they won't forget
I was here
I lived, I loved
I was here
I did, I've done, everything that I wanted
And it was more than I thought it would be
I will leave my mark so everyone will know
I was here"Beyonce Knowles -I was here Lyrics

BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION

On the 22 November 2015 it was my Birthday even though i had low budged i tried my best to make sure that i make it the most memorable day of my life.I celebrated my day in Capetown (known as Mother City) where i currently live.

I invited closest friends of mine who were also very excited about the day which made me feel even more excited and special.It was my day doll lol .I planed every thing even though  i did not have enough money to do every thing i wanted but i still enjoyed every moment of it.

This was my outfit , it was pretty cold that day  so had to look stylish at the same time had to be warm

I started my day by treating my self to the spa at Waterfront .

After that i met up with my friends at cape town tourism where we bought ticket for red bus .

we traveled around cape town and we got off at Hout bay market we never been that  side since we relocated in  Capetown  so it was our first time there.

We were all amazed by the beauty of the place and the atmosphere there ,it was amazing  .

We took picture and had good. We took another bus using the same ticket to V&A waterfront we had lunch there unfortunately we did not take pictures at the restaurant we took pictures outside.

After waterfront we went back to my room at res ,we chat play music,took picture,lough and had some wine.

What i learned from that day is that you do not need to be rich to enjoy yourself or to celebrate life,you do not need to have high profile friends to be happy  you just need people who enjoy your company ,people who do not want you to be something you are not.

ABOUT

My name is Lisa Nqala .
I am  an Internal Auditing student .I love fashion ,reading,writing and spending time with friends and family.
I believe that anyone can be what ever he/she want to be ,if you love you self ,believe in yourself, accepted yourself (your flaws).
I also believe that we were created to be THE BEST IN WHATEVER WE DECIDE TO DO.
This blog is going to be about fashion,self love,unpacking life experiences,celebrating life,being a Go-getter and be the best you can be.