I
know who I am now. I am a go-getter. I go after what I want and what I believe
is right for me. I have learned to keep calm, to fight a good fight and to
fight for my dreams. I have defined myself according to what I want to achieve,
what I expect from myself, what I hope for, what I love and value. My purpose
is to inspire and be inspired.
I
know my values, I value hard work and education. I value respect and
integrity. I have made choices, I chose to be a dreamer and a go-getter. I
used to feel so drained, hopeless and lost after the breakup. The first day
after the breakup I would feel like a piece of trash. I would be miserable,
ashamed and terrified. The thought of how are you going to inform people about
the ending of the relationship and the energy and work you have put into the
relationship. I HATED TO FEEL THAT WAY, I knew from that moment that I needed
to do something about it, I knew that there was something wrong with me, how
could an external factor affect me like that and how could I even allow it to
have so much impact on my well-being? I knew from that moment that I
needed to make changes in my life that's when I realized that I needed to
define myself, maybe it was because I didn't know who I was, what I stand
for. I needed to make life-changing decisions and choices. I came up with
80/20 rule, 80% energy and time to goals and dreams and 20% energy and time to
relationships. I needed to do something not only for myself but for the new
generation, they do not have to suffer as we have suffered. I have to make
thing a bit easier and different for them. There is more in life than being in
a relationship especial when you are still a teenager. You still need to define
and build your brand. You still need to work on your story or shape your story.
You still need to invest into your empire. You still need to develop a five (5)
years plan from now. You still have to visualize your future. You still need to
identify and study your role-models and follow their path. You still have to
identify your weaknesses and plan on how are you going to improve and overcome
them. You still have to identify your strength and decide on how are you going
to use them to better your life in the future. You still have to decide on what
you do not want to happen in your life in the future or who you do not want to
end up like. TEAM KEEP CALM, FIGHT A GOOD FIGHT, FIGHT FOR YOUR
DREAMS, TRUST GOD, TEAM GO-GETTA ~ LISA NQALA.
Written
by Lisa Nqala
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